Letting Go of the Past...

Letting go of something that has happened is so hard but it needs to be done. It's something every person needs to learn. Yes, I bet half of you that are reading this at the moment are saying, "I don't hold grudges... I let go of the past... Blahh... Blahh.. Blah..." You know what I say... LLLLLLLIIIIARRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!! Everyone holds on to something that has happened to them. It could be big or small. Sometime in your life you HAVE held someone to something that they have done to you. It's easier to get over that when you admit it. Trust me. I thought I didn't really hold things to people but this 1 time I did. I hated this person with everything I could. Thinking of what they did to me just made me sick to my stomach. It made me so sick I would be throwing up. Guess what? That's NOT healthly. You shouldn't hold things to people. Yes afterwards you may not be friends with them but don't hate them. Hating them is A WASTE OF TIME! You think about it day and night and you can't get your mind off of it and that's all you can think about. Well guess what you're doing.. wasting your time. You shouldn't go through life doing that to yourself. You know what go ahead not talk to them whatever but DONT waste your time hating someone. I think when people say "forget the past" they get the wrong message from it. I think people should just move on and learn something from the past. Not forget it because all you're doing then is letting people open for another shot. Someone can just do something so much worse if you just "forget" about it. So don't let people do that. Learn from that pain. Learn from those emotions you felt. All it's doing is making you stronger. So learn don't forget. As I leaving you pondering once again all I ask of you is to learn from those dumb things people do to you... learn from those feelings you felt... don't beat yourself up about it... move on from it... and please PLEASE PLEASE don't waste your time hating people.

Learning from her past,

Maranda :)))