It Takes Two

Have you ever been in something or had to do something where it takes both people to make it work? Where you both have to make that same effort for it to work out? But usually it doesn't end up that way does it? It usually ends up where 1 person is making most of the effort while the other person makes some to little. Wow. Does that bug me more than ever! Ahhh! I absolutely hate it! Everything works out so much better if they just both make effort!
I hate it when I see that 1 person making so much of the effort to make it work and all they do is struggle. Now that saddens me. Then while the other person knows that they are struggling or they just don't pay enough attention to even notice how hard they are working! Ahh! I just feel like going up to those people and shaking them and telling them to get a grip and look at what's going on around them!
Everyone knows those relationships... Where it's one person wanting it to work out so bad but then there's that one other person where they don't take the time or effort to look and around see what they are doing! I wish those people could see what they are doing to the person making all the effort! I mean come on really? It's not that hard to make a little effort here. It's not going to kill ya now. Like I said before... 2 is so much better than 1. You can't make and build a relationship out of 1 person making all the effort! (That's just a little advise for anyone that didn't know that)
I wish those people who barely take the time to look around or make an effort could see how much blowing people off actually hurts. If they knew how it felt they would feel like shit and maybe that's what they have to feel to change. I hate when I see my friends hurt when they are blown off because I know how it feels like and it freaking sucks! It's like you are trying your best and you but all of your effort and everything else into one thing and you are so excited to show or tell or anything to that one special person because you want them to be just as happy and excited as you are but, then when it comes to that moment for you to let that other person see what it is and you're waiting for them to say something or show a little emotion and this is what you get... "O. Well that's cool I guess.. " Okay so you might has well take that persons heart out and throw it on the ground then start jumping on it while laughing like the jerk you are! (Just take a second to think about how that must feel!!!)
So as I leave you please don't be one of those effortless people! Really it's not that hard to pick up the phone or stop by or help or make some effort or anything! It's truly not! That goes for anything and everything you do in life! Next time you feel like being one of those effortless people please think about what you're really doing to that other person who's involved. Just take some time to look around and make some effort. It can make a huge change.

Making that effort,

Maranda :)))))))